In this series of  Infertility, I’ve focused on all aspects of Infertility. Its types of causes in male & female. Various Test performed, Treatment & their Advantages/disadvantages on couples. Here I tried to talk about all the confusions and the right time to consult, how Infertility counseling help.

Things to Know About Infertility Treatment

So let’s brush up our knowledge about Infertility. Hope this article will be a ray of hope for Couples!!

Infertility treatments

There are three main types of fertility treatment available :

1. Treatment to assist fertility
2. Surgical procedures
3. Assisted conception, which may be intrauterine insemination (IUI) or in-vitro fertilization (IVF).

Complications of  Infertility treatments :

1. side effects of medication
2. increased risk of ectopic pregnancy
3. multiple pregnancies
4. stress.

Should I discuss with my partner that I am visiting the doctor?

Yes, absolutely. No matter how long you are struggling to conceive, but with negative results raised your concerns. Don’t hesitate to discuss with your partner – after all this is affecting both of your mental health and relationship.

The thought that you may not be able to conceive may make it curious to visit your Consultant without another soul knowing, and this is a normal human reaction.

Don’t shy away from discussing your concern with your partner, family, and friends. And remember that both men and women are both equally responsible for fertility problems.

Sometimes it’s more a woman part and sometimes man, it varies with person to person.

When is the right time or moment to seek help?

For most couples ‘How long will it take to get pregnant’ is one of the commonest questions they ask when they begin to actively try for a baby.

Unfortunately, there is no set answer for this question, nor is there a definite method after which infertility is declared.

Though many couples are fortunate enough to conceive in short span of time post marriage. While some struggles a lot which eventually leads to anxiety and disappointment.

Getting pregnant is natural, but due to some negligence and lack of information, health issues like PCOS, menopausal problems, Irregular Menstrual cycle and unnatural practices like using MTP kits etc lead to infertility. The question is that when you should concern a doctor if you are not able to conceive.

• A couple should consult a doctor if they have not conceived after 2 years of trying,
• If your age is above 35years, or if you are diagnosed with infertility causes in the past.

The Consultant checks common causes of infertility and will also be able to suggest treatments and lifestyle changes that could help.

How could infertility counseling help?

Infertility is considered a taboo though we live in the 21st century. So, it becomes compulsive for the suffering couple to be prepared mentally strong. This will come from counseling.

It’s obvious from Research, that Infertility has a stressful effect on relationships. The condition is isolating and can impact how a couple communicates with each other.

This problem also carries with it a sense of denial with sadness individually when pregnancy does not materialize. There persist feelings of fear, guilt, and abandonment from the partner who feels the problem lies with them.

The period of infertility raises many eyebrows, especially in Indian society. The couple starts questioning their existence and question marks their relationship.

They feel depressed, unhappy being in their relationship. They don’t know how to express and deal with this situation. And if they don’t they eventually end up their marriages.

The couple should support each other during this period. If possible see a relationship counselor. Counseling brings positivity, helps to cope with stress and helps to express your feelings.

Infertility is considered a taboo though we live in the 21st century. So, it becomes compulsive for the suffering couple to be prepared mentally strong. This will come from counseling.

Apart from proper and regular medical investigations and treatment patients must be counsels Mentally as well. The couple faces high pressure from family and society.

Infertility counseling can widen the channels of communication and Brings the couples together & they learn to be in contact with each other instead of ignoring as they undergo counseling & yes this is going to be a challenging course of action.

Every week I come across at least 2-3 couples on average going through problem Infertility. Lots of hope in eyes & pain in the heart.

I know it’s not easy to break through, but it’s not impossible. I counsel them with all the positive vibes to Trust God, it’s not the End 🙂